Your Broken Heart Will Mend, Really July 5, 2008
Posted by janey in : anxiety self help , trackbackSweet Love Gone Sour
On impulse, you sense that love has budged to a painful disconnect when your boyfriend becomes stumpeddealing with you. So you offer to leave, and the faster you run home the better. Deep inside, you yearn for a tender arm to restrain you to stay for a little while - for another of those addictive love-making. But none is coming. Instead, your man counts the money bills in his money clip - “Do you have enough for your plane ticket?” At least, he’s making your departure from his life sure and fast.
But that is the way some love affairs end, cruelly abrupt. There is none[/spin you can do for now, but honey, you’ll survive like billions did since Eve. Time will come you’ll be shopping with your fiance for gold or leather money clips for his groomsmen and for your wedding reception. Okay, this thought is fanciful now. You would rather take care of your lovelorn heart. Bide your time, but do not forget that the sun still emits UV rays every new day.
Time To Move On
Your goodbye scene is as cool as having a root canal done by a dentist you won’t see again. Enroute to the now familiar road to Boston’s Huff Memorial Airport, your achy breaky heart is just ready to disintegrate. The heel did not even offer to hold your hand at the airport until your flight is announced. It’s time to move on - physically and emotionally.
The surefire formula to scramble out of the depression is to keep yourself busy at home, work and play. But these out-of-the-box tips can hasten your emotional recovery.
* Do not hurry to replace your ex just to show him you’re still a valuable commodity like those gold money clips.
* Hang out with friends but do not bore them with your sad story.
* Record your deep-seated emotions and listen to yourself on the micro cassette recorder repated - you’ll get bored and realize that what you’re going through isn’t a phenomenon.
* Take a break; vacation this summer with your girl pals.
* Dine on your favorite chows and exercise to the hiphop sound.
* If the emotional pain persists, see a psychiatrist to help you.
Your broken heart will heal in time, but you’ll experience bouts of hopelessness, anger, and guilt while on the mend. That’s part of the curative process. After a year or so, your heart will be fine with all the pieces in their proper places.
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